Heidi Priebe

We’re all familiar with anti-heroes on television. We have Jack Sparrow from Pirates of the Caribbean. Tyler Durden from Fight Club. Severus Snape from Harry Potter and the psychopathic lead character from Dexter.

Here are a few cardinal rules about change that only people who are comfortable with it know.

Date a girl who doesn’t need you because she’s already comfortable alone.

As an (arguably) grown-up ENFP, here are a few things I would love to go back in time and tell my younger self.

We have to be patient with ourselves as we move through the parts in between the where we’ve been and where we’re going.

When you are terrified of commitment, there’s no easy answer to a given dilemma.

When the urge to wander hits, it’s never random. It is almost like a knee-jerk reaction for many of us.

The more we talk about our needs, the more they are fulfilled.

Here are a few things you should know about dating in our home and native land.

Here are a few telltale signs that your current place of work just isn’t for you:

They’re ridiculously open-minded.

It gets harder to start over as we get older because we grow into our bigger, adult shoes and they are not uncomplicated garments to unlace.

The way you treated yourself most of your life

You might be a type 7 if you identify with most of the following traits:

Here is why INFJs would make ideal world leaders:

It sneaks up without warning. It takes you over by surprise.

Maybe our love isn’t a sitcom romance or TV trope.

People can sense that kind of desperation a mile away.